Originally Posted by jemuniverse777
A few months ago I moved to another state, and have been staying with a friend of mine.Hes actually a real a-hole and havent been too tight with him for about six years.
Him and his girlfriend broke up about 5 weeks ago and me and here have ended up together and its a totally fuched up situation. My buddy doesn't know about us but thinks he has found us out by some shiht he found on her phone. We all lived in the same house until last night
I kinda hope this is a joke
I know I'm going to end up kicking myself for posting in this thread.....
From the information I just quoted in your post I'm having a bit of a hard time not wondering of your a-hole buddy is only a a-hole for letting you into his house in the first place
I'm really not trying to pass any judgement, but if I had a "friend" that brings on the situation you describe in your post I'd start hanging out with people who were trying to kill me.
Just to explain where I'm comming from:
1: This "a-hole" extended hospitality to you... He let you stay in his home for what seems like 5 weeks or more when you apparantly did not have anywhere else to go.
*Note: This is a sign he might not actually be an a-hole but could possibly be considered a real friend... & the good kind. *
2. When He broke up with his girl... one who He apparantly liked enough to live with... not just "some chick we met at the club last night"... instead of comforting your friend who took you into his home in a possible difficult time for him or even perhaps while you WERE doing that for him as long as he was in the same room, you end up hooking up with this/his girl while she & you are still living with him... If this went on for weeks it seems like this might show that you were remaining friendly to his face but all the while back stabbing this "a-hole friend" as he gave you a place to live. There are words not found in Websters dictionaly that describe this behavior
* I know this is a real strech of the imagination, but this could be a sign YOU might not be such a fantastic friend to him.
By some VERY slim chance this might even be a tiny little part of the reason He got upset with the two of you & acted in a way you consider to be a-hole-ish towards you.*
Maybe I just have a really warped sense of what friendship is......
EDIT: I rated this thread excellent for its unusual content