Yeah, the BSBs have that issue where the finish wears off, especially on the back of the neck, but otherwise a great guitar. I would go with an SK or a DY, you can't go wrong. Rich has a few of each...
http://www.ibanezrules.com/used.htm#JEM
If you don't have enough for one of them, then I would suggest waiting until you do. You won't get a better set-up guitar from a more honest dealer. It will be worth the wait to have enough for one of Rich's and you do definitely get what you pay for.