Re: Daughters and dating
I'm 19 and I've grown up with girls your daughter's age, and am living with a whole bunch of 18-19 year old girls right now.
I've there's one thing that I can tell you for definite, it is this.
If she wants to have sex, she WILL have sex. That's it.
Now, as a parent, you have two options.
1) Make sex a taboo, 'naughty' issue.
2) Be open and understanding about sex, and understand that sex with a partner, in a relationship, is perfectly normal.
Option 1 will result in her viewing sex as a bad thing. She'll have sex, and then decide that she's already done one really naughty thing, why not do a few more? THIS could lead to your paranoia about group sex, etc. becoming realised.
Optino 2 will result in her viewing sex with a partner, in a relationship as a perfectly healthy thing. She'll do it - no repercussions. She'll see group sex etc. as 'bad' things, and won't do them.
Your choice, mate. Frankly, "Sex is a sin!! Don't do it!! Ever!!" is not going to win over her hormones and teenage desires.
So face up and allow her to live her own life.