Hate to say it, but I feel your pain. Its a terrible thing, but if shes not in love with you any more, why force it? You could squeeze out a little more time, but its going to be miserable and the divorce is going to be ugly. Id try to offer marriage counseling a few more times, and keep things amicable. She, at the very very very least, had the gumption to tell you straight up. Most people would just say "F- it" and sleep around until they got caught.
You're right as well, you deserve to be in a committed relationship. If she doesnt want to be, you really cant force her, as much as you want. Do everything you can, and if its still not enough, go to sleep knowing you tried. If it doesnt work out, its truly not going to be your fault.
I have a friend going through the same thing as you right now, and its really hard on both ends. ESPECIALLY because they have 2 very young children.
Why somebody would come to a guitar forum where people talk about woods and picks to talk about his wife to..........................................strang ers?
Seriously just trying to understand.
No friends, relatives whatever in real life?
Maybe a shrink's forum would be better?
Even a priest would listen to your crying.
Seriously(again) talk about your wife to strangers?
Man this word is...................who knows?!
treva, I like you dude, but seriously, hush here. He's going through a hard time and searching for answers. Hes getting non biased points of view here, perhaps from people like myself who have gone through this type of thing and how to deal. Its not rational behavior, but its logical.