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post #1 of 92 (permalink) Old 01-09-2007, 06:47 PM Thread Starter
 
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alright im in a bit of a bind, I like two girls (not a big deal I guess but oh well) well One of them I've liked for quite a while now (her names andie) and this other girl I just met,well I like her too ( her names aylssa)

now heres the twist

I don't know if andie feels the same way I do about her
now aylssa on the other hand, I know she does, we flirt in school

....welll aylssa has a boyfriend, so it makes me wonder, but she's NEVER around the dude, she doesn't bring him up, it's like they're not together

and they also don't like each other at all!

any advice from someone who's been in this situation...?
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post #2 of 92 (permalink) Old 01-09-2007, 06:53 PM
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grow a pair and make your move.
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grow a pair and make your move.
on which one?!

DON'T SAY BOTH lol

I don't which one I like more
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like Nike man just do it..

Follow your heart..

or

Flip a Coin..
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on which one?!

DON'T SAY BOTH lol

I don't which one I like more
Leave the one alone who already has a man, that's a headache you dont want or need. Go for the other one, if it doesnt work out tell the other one drop her man, and she can have a free ride on the baloney pony, otherwise you dont have time for the BS
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Leave the one alone who already has a man, that's a headache you dont want or need. Go for the other one, if it doesnt work out tell the other one drop her man, and she can have a free ride on the baloney pony, otherwise you dont have time for the BS
El telling it like it is.
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As ever el is on the money, take his advice and run with it.
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alright im in a bit of a bind, I like two girls (not a big deal I guess but oh well) well One of them I've liked for quite a while now (her names andie) and this other girl I just met,well I like her too ( her names aylssa)

now heres the twist

I don't know if andie feels the same way I do about her
now aylssa on the other hand, I know she does, we flirt in school

....welll aylssa has a boyfriend, so it makes me wonder, but she's NEVER around the dude, she doesn't bring him up, it's like they're not together

and they also don't like each other at all!

any advice from someone who's been in this situation...?
Cool to hear you've moved on since the 'Grr' thread, Eddie. Right on.

As for this particular situation... If you like both of them, why don't you play it safe and open up to the girl who's single?

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Whatever you do just go for one...don't try get 'em both.
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It is IMPOSSIBLE to give advice on girls/women/females

How can you give advice on something that is CONSTANTLY changing and NEVER, EVER will know what it wants???

Just have fun an keep your HEART OUT of it Ed
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id steer clear of the one with the boyf until she breaks up with him. otherwise its impossible to tell if shes just flirting for fun or showing that shes actually interested.
as for the single one, go get her!
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If the girl that's flirting with you has a bf, why don't you flat out ask her if she wants something with you? If she lays out the "I'm going to tell my bf" line, then beat his azz up when he comes asking questions, LOL

As far as the other little girl goes, tell her how you feel and the worse she'll tell you is to F-off, at which point you can look her in the eye and say cool.

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P.S.: Although I have no clue as to how old the three of you are, don't think that this is going to be true love or anything, live it and bang it
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don't think that this is going to be true love or anything, live it and bang it

lol...wise words
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well thank's for all da advice, I'm still thinking over making the final desicion

I choose one, the other one isn't gonna want to be around me cause they don't like each other so yeah
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cause they don't like each other so yeah
Wow...what a surprise
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Wow...what a surprise
haha, it's rather funny tho cause before I met the girl with the boyfriend, SOME OTHER GIRL was B*tching at me cause I like the single girl, cause those two girl's happen to not like each other either


drama filled month.... LOL
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