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post #1 of 70 (permalink) Old 08-10-2006, 11:26 AM Thread Starter
 
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When you break up with someone, are you supposed to get rid of that really, really empty feeling that you get...? Like, not saying I just dumped someone, but something really similar to it.... More like, I lost a really amazing opportunity because it wasn't going to work... How are you supposed to get rid of wondering what COULD have been? ....I don't know if this sounds emo to anyone, but how can I distract myself?

Am I just being ridiculously stupid??

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my fiance of 5 years left me a few months before our wedding.we had a child together too, plus the house, cars, bills, you name it..ended up having to sell our house, sell our brand new SUV and crap..i was devastated and it was the last thing i thought would ever happen..we've been apart for about a year and a half and she has done slept with a ton of people and trashy crap like that..i have a new GF whom i've been dating for a little over a year and i am much happier...they say time heals all wounds, and for me, healing did take time and even to this day is still taking time..plus having good friends, playing guitar, writing poetry and being around my son as much as possible keeps me going.
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sometimes wanting is often better than actually having.

you can't tell someone how to process such a scenario but naturally those feelings will fade and be replaced ...glen
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sometimes wanting is often better than actually having.
Why???

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Well with a name like "7 plagues" you clearly are a much cheerier person now. Just kidding bro, that is a pretty horrible story you have there. But you are 100% right. Time is the only thing that will help. Look at it like this, the more it meant to you, the longer it will take to get over. As much happiness as you had, now you have to have that much sadness. Eventually you will come to balance and all will be good again. And by the way lil sis, trust me, you WILL have the last laugh.
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Well with a name like "7 plagues" you clearly are a much cheerier person now. Just kidding bro, that is a pretty horrible story you have there. But you are 100% right. Time is the only thing that will help. Look at it like this, the more it meant to you, the longer it will take to get over. As much happiness as you had, now you have to have that much sadness. Eventually you will come to balance and all will be good again. And by the way lil sis, trust me, you WILL have the last laugh.
But the dude was a really great guy, and I just feel like a total complete jerk... It's not like I didn't want feel the same way, cause trust me, I DO... But I can't be with him, or commit myself to him, or WHATEVER, and I just feel like a jerk.. UGH... Sometimes I wish the whole world was chicks. No wait, nevermind. ....Nevermind.

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Yeah, sometimes I wish the whole world was just chicks too. Like EVERY DAY!!!!! Hells yeah!!!
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Yeah, sometimes I wish the whole world was just chicks too. Like EVERY DAY!!!!! Hells yeah!!!
Ummm..... Bro......
That would mean YOU would be a girl, too!!!!!


Ugh, boys are so stupid. hahahahaha!!!

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And by the way lil sis, trust me, you WILL have the last laugh.
I don't deserve the last laugh, nor do I want it.

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What's so stupid about that?

Imagine the other way round... I wouldn't like that very much. ;-)
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Ummm..... Bro......
That would mean YOU would be a girl, too!!!!!


Ugh, boys are so stupid. hahahahaha!!!

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Well, except for me of course.
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Well, except for me of course.
hahahaha!!!!
Well, yeah, duh, you're serving our country..
There's gotta be a brain up there SOMEWHERE!!

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What's so stupid about that?

Imagine the other way round... I wouldn't like that very much. ;-)
What do you mean????

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Well with a name like "7 plagues" you clearly are a much cheerier person now. Just kidding bro, that is a pretty horrible story you have there. But you are 100% right. Time is the only thing that will help. Look at it like this, the more it meant to you, the longer it will take to get over. As much happiness as you had, now you have to have that much sadness. Eventually you will come to balance and all will be good again. And by the way lil sis, trust me, you WILL have the last laugh.
LOL..the funny thing is my **** name is wormlegs..much cheerier
google 7th plague and see what you get..pretty wild! i had the last laught when i bought 13 guitars..muwhahah!
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No one can tell you how to feel in this situation, you need to just go through it and learn from it, even if what you seem to be learning is that life sometimes equals pain. Whnever anyone says "it's for the best" they're consciously trying to put a happy spin on something they know is nonetheless painful.
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