Re: Moving out tomorrow
hey man, that's a tough call and i was there. roommate/good friend had people over while i sat in my room playing guitar or out with my girlfriend / now wife. i felt like the place wasn't mine. they would eat my food, he wouldn't contribute, wouldn't clean, his gf slept over 3 days during the week and they stayed up really late at night, keeping me up. it got to the point where i didn't care and i had to say something after a few months...but i didn't have to. he started living at her place almost everyday. it got to the point where he would only show up to pay his half of the rent...so i lived in the place by myself. i was lucky. it will work out. i know it can be rough but if you guys are close just let him know how you feel. say something like, i am not telling you what to do, but i feel like this place isn't mine because of all the people over... or just mention the landlord thing and you don't want to get in trouble and risk losing the place. he should be cool with it. you have to look out for yourself. if it gets really bad you can leave...but i don't think it will come to that. you're wrestling with a lot right now. new place, away from home first time, 3 hours away from home actually.... it's a lot to take on. that is a huge part of your feeling bad. it will change. it's all still very new. he probably doesn't see how you feel. i'm sure he's just hangin' out with his girlfriend with you as a roommate. he may say, do you want me to not hang out with her here? and you will say no, of course not..... so, there really may not be a resolution.