Some Advice On A Friend...
Ok heres the deal, I have a friend of mine who is like a brother honestly I'd do anything for the guy he's like family, but lately he's been a bit different do to something that has come up in my life
Recently, I met this girl....and we've not known each other long but we like each other, we speak everyday and she lives out in the city, and recently I went up to see her, now I had to take the bus which sucked and my friend came with. It was a hot day, we took like 4 buses (happens when you don't have a car) and me and her hung out, and yes held hands, kissed, etc. well my friend was off doing his own thing, scoping out ladies etc, thought he was cool with it.
He had been acting a bit weird since I havent been hanging with him as much and showing her some attention, just rolling his eyes when I mentioned her and mentioning a past girl who eh im not getting into but he compared this new girl to the previous one, which pissed the new girl off, and she now does not like my best friend
I opened firefox today and since it asked restore session I said "ok restore" clicked it, it was the previous history content of a msg from him to our other friend. In his msg he basicly said I "quit the band", "all my time is devoted to her and nothing more", "I'm trading my guitar for a camera", "I've become c0cky on guitar", and was mocking the time period of which I've known her, which is hypocritical for him to say. Amongst other things, and he's been making plans to start a new band with other friends, now I'm not jealous in this field, seeing as how I want to sell my Jem and whatnot to persue Photography as a career.
But the nerve of him to say all theese other things and put words in my mouth and even call me c0cky, and mock my guitar playing saying I've become an "yngwie of sorts" that's outrageous.
I don't know what his problem is with me liking this girl, I myself have had bad "luck" with girl's in the past, and this one is just great. I mean he should be happy for me right?, but no he's not.
He also wanted me to move back up with him to Ohio, his home state and I told him "not now, I have a job, I have to finish school and yes...I have Kelsi" and he seemed to take it ok, but look's like apparently he hasn't.
I just don't understand his logic, I've been there for him countless times, I've walked to a different town with him, took two hour's just for him to go get laid, I waited for him outside of a chicks house so her bro wouldn't come while he was inside having sex, and slept next to a damn dumpster waiting for him to finish. I've been there for him time and time again and Don't understand why he's going to such great lenght's to push me away at the moment.