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post #1 of 16 (permalink) Old 07-25-2006, 01:17 AM Thread Starter
 
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I know this isnt a place to dump mindless junk... But Im really depressed cause i found out my girlfriend cheated on me.....and now im all and dont know what to do
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post #2 of 16 (permalink) Old 07-25-2006, 01:32 AM
 
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Go watch a good movie.... Like "crossroads". Then pick up that guitar. Play some blues. Like the line in the movie..... the blues ain't nothin but a good man feeling down. Seriously.... immerse yourself amongst your good friends and family, and stay busy. I feel for ya bro.... it doesn't mean much now, but you'll get over her and be better off in the long run. Lots of women, lots of towns....
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Just relax, there's proverb here in malay "bunga bukan sekuntum" it means there's not only one flower Continue with life, forget the two timing ****
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Well The best thing to do is take a night out on the town hang with the budd's, drink a few brews play some tunes, cause theirs more to life than the females bro. WWDD is my moto. WHAT WOULD DIMEBAG DO!!!
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If she's still the right girl, make up - I lost the best girl in the world (IMHO) a year or so ago through being basically a d**k, and now all I do is have nights on the town with the budds, drinking brews and playing tunes... which is, y'know, sort of cool, but not as much as being with her was.........
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I dont know If I can forgive her for cheating on me.
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Like the other guys said. Take a break a play some guitar .

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I dont know If I can forgive her for cheating on me.
Forgive her, but end the relationship. There are girls to be found who won't trash you and your feelings for them. Life's too short to tolerate that BS. Move on and don't look back.
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Don't know how old you are, or how long you've been in a committed relationship, but its probably not the first nor last time it has happened, and it probably won't stop until you've found the right girl.
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Don't know how old you are, or how long you've been in a committed relationship, but its probably not the first nor last time it has happened, and it probably won't stop until you've found the right girl.

I know what you mean man.....it just hurts alot man.
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post #11 of 16 (permalink) Old 07-25-2006, 09:21 AM
 
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Move on man. She doesn't deserve you. If you do stay with her it will never be good. You'll have that hanging over your relationship forever. Just end it and move on.
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post #12 of 16 (permalink) Old 07-25-2006, 09:33 AM
 
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That's something that is inexcusable - Rotti's right, she doesn't deserve you. People do things like this, and sadly it isn't anything that's going go away completely, that's people. But everyone else makes a good point - there's way better people than her and its just a matter of finding them so until then, pick up your guitar, play some tunes, hang with your friends and be ready for it when it happens.

Feel better eh?
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post #13 of 16 (permalink) Old 07-25-2006, 09:40 AM
 
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in the immortal words of Coach from "Saving Silverman"

"Kill the B!tch"


Hey man once a cheater always a cheater. Dump her and move on.

Relationships are like buses, if you miss one another will be there in a few minutes.

Dont lower yourself and let her think what she did was ok, your basically enabling her to do it again.

Grab that JemDBK of yours and just wail all your frustration, anger and sadness out. Unlike the girl, guitars are loyal..

If you need to talk ill be on aim later this afternoon.
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I know this isnt a place to dump mindless junk... But Im really depressed cause i found out my girlfriend cheated on me.....and now im all and dont know what to do
Thank her for showing her true colors, forgive her, move on and never look back ... glen
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Go watch a good movie.... Like "crossroads". Then pick up that guitar. Play some blues. Like the line in the movie..... the blues ain't nothin but a good man feeling down.
Nah,Bleeding Gums Murphy was right in The Simpsons......."the blues ain't about feelin' bad,it's about makin' other people feel WORSE.............and makin' a few bucks while your at it!!!! "

Seriously though,you will need time to get over it,just don't give her the sastisfaction of seeing you broken.Grieve in private but always remember she's better being in your past,you DO deserve much better.
And DON'T EVER take her back!!!!!
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