Join Date: Jun 2001
Location: South West England
Re: What do you find impresses Women more?
Yes the key is the having fun aspect.
If women, or men, see that you are having fun you instantly become more attractive to them. Also, if you are actually having fun you will feel more attractive this often means that other people will find you more attractive too. As you will hold yourself differently - you will have mojo, confidence, spank - whatever you want to call it!
However the other aspect of this issues is the 'wailing or shredding' part. I'm not convinced that this impresses anyone - other than people who watch these videos on YT and visit these forums. I'm sure that if you were playing something that has some groove to it and appeard to be having fun more women would be impressed than if you were playing kill the guy with the ball and standing perfectly still while dribbling, holding your breath and closing your eyes (while looking at your feet).
Consider EVH in his prime - which for me is the Live Without a Net era. I think that this is what you need to aim for, in terms of 'fun factor'. Now consider Robert Fripp's live performances, I dont think that this will get you much female attention - which I'm guessing is what your actually asking about - regardless of how good you play.
As to the question of WHY this should matter to women. The interesting thing is that the majority of women dont actually care about looks - research suggests they find things like ambition, confidence, resouces, skills, health and posessions attractive. This, and I dont know if I buy this totally, but this is what the female psychology books suggest, goes back to prehistoric times when people were concerned with maxamising their chances for survival....
So, if you look like your having as much fun as EVH in the Jump video - then the chances are your going to get some female attention.
"I think your hot no matter what."