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post #1 of 42 (permalink) Old 10-20-2010, 12:58 AM Thread Starter
 
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What do you find impresses Women more?

Just curious, if anyone has any input / experience / knowledge in this area.

Does it seem to impress women more if you look intense while playing or if you're relaxed and having fun while wailing or shredding?

And if you do have input, do you have any idea WHY this should matter to women?
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Re: What do you find impresses Women more?

Yes the key is the having fun aspect.

If women, or men, see that you are having fun you instantly become more attractive to them. Also, if you are actually having fun you will feel more attractive this often means that other people will find you more attractive too. As you will hold yourself differently - you will have mojo, confidence, spank - whatever you want to call it!

However the other aspect of this issues is the 'wailing or shredding' part. I'm not convinced that this impresses anyone - other than people who watch these videos on YT and visit these forums. I'm sure that if you were playing something that has some groove to it and appeard to be having fun more women would be impressed than if you were playing kill the guy with the ball and standing perfectly still while dribbling, holding your breath and closing your eyes (while looking at your feet).

Consider EVH in his prime - which for me is the Live Without a Net era. I think that this is what you need to aim for, in terms of 'fun factor'. Now consider Robert Fripp's live performances, I dont think that this will get you much female attention - which I'm guessing is what your actually asking about - regardless of how good you play.

As to the question of WHY this should matter to women. The interesting thing is that the majority of women dont actually care about looks - research suggests they find things like ambition, confidence, resouces, skills, health and posessions attractive. This, and I dont know if I buy this totally, but this is what the female psychology books suggest, goes back to prehistoric times when people were concerned with maxamising their chances for survival....

So, if you look like your having as much fun as EVH in the Jump video - then the chances are your going to get some female attention.

"I think your hot no matter what."

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money and being their slave.hahahah
as far as playing all my old women liked motley crew and poisin lol.
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Re: What do you find impresses Women more?

women are interested in how good your job is how good your car is and how well off you are,the better the womans looks the worse she is
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Re: What do you find impresses Women more?

Women want to have fun, not be around angry people... Even the tattooed, emo type want to have fun... :P
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Re: What do you find impresses Women more?

Rob nailed it.

p.s. Chicks don't really dig metal. Play metal for fun, it never gets you laid.

You know what does? Indie rock...and sappy acoustic music.
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Re: What do you find impresses Women more?

Rob has pretty much nailed it. I've found there's a hotness factor and a craziness factor. The Hotter the crazier, lol, although there's always exceptions to the rules.
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Funny, every woman i know hares the sound of a guitar.............. So shredding all together is useless for me. Unless im making millions while doing it
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Re: What do you find impresses Women more?

Just idle curiosity, really. I don't play out so it doesn't really matter.

It just seems women are sometimes more aroused by the seeming effort put into something rather than how good the result is.

I don't understand it, but my operating premise is all women are insane anyway.
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I don't understand it, but my operating premise is all women are insane anyway.
Yes. My research would support this premise. I'm yet to disprove this either.....
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Just curious, if anyone has any input / experience / knowledge in this area.

Does it seem to impress women more if you look intense while playing or if you're relaxed and having fun while wailing or shredding?

And if you do have input, do you have any idea WHY this should matter to women?
Women want men that are sure of themselves and don't ask questions about women on message boards like a 12 yr old.
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I guess I should have said USEFUL input...
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Play metal for fun, it never gets you laid.
That, my friend, is not entirely accurate...
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What a load of bull****, heaps of hot women go out with broke musicians...
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Re: What do you find impresses Women more?

you can be the best shredder on the planet but if you havent got the looks you aint going to get laid.women are very fussy these days even big lard ass women want fit looking guys.if your a ugly dude with no job you might aswell cut your co ck off
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