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post #1 of 27 (permalink) Old 06-28-2011, 11:02 PM Thread Starter
 
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Whats your opinion about this situation?

Ok, here goes...I had a male friend ( I am male myself) who was a self-confessed sexual addict. He frequently showed me videos of a few of the chics he was bedding and bragged about it quite often. Ok, I know guys like to talk trash about naked chics and stuff, but this guy bragged about cheating on his g/f and it kind of made me feel uneasy. Well, one day he showed me a video of him and a chic and his p*nis was definitely and obviously visible the entire time. I told him that was uncool. Since then I have stopped talking to him and he just recently stopped calling me. How would you guys handle this situation? I am not a homophobe, etc, but I felt uneasy around him after he showed me his goods...any thoughts?
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post #2 of 27 (permalink) Old 06-28-2011, 11:56 PM
 
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I suggest you dont join the navy....
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I suggest you dont join the navy....
even better........................ a shrink!
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I certainly wouldn't be telling total strangers in an online forum about it.



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I certainly wouldn't be telling total strangers in an online forum about it.
Come'n tell us...............................tell ussssssssssssssss

Jesus what's the problem of seeing a friend's penis?!
Are we in 2011 or stone age?
Wait..... in stone age they all could see their penises!
Every male in the world(and some females ) have a penis so what's your problem?
Fear of opening the closet doors?
If I was a shrink I'd laugh my whole day because of crazy people paying my bills

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Didn't realize so many people like to see their friends penis's.
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Didn't realize so many people like to see their friends penis's.
There's a huge difference between like to see and....................... see.
You never practiced any sports?
Never took bath in the same place with your "team" players?
Why I'm wasting my time?
Because crazy people are funny
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post #8 of 27 (permalink) Old 06-29-2011, 07:41 AM Thread Starter
 
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I can understand if it is the "appropriate' setting, i.e, a locker room, the Navy (lol), etc...But when a friend feels the need to show off his homemade video collection do you find that crossing the line?
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I can understand if it is the "appropriate' setting, i.e, a locker room, the Navy (lol), etc...But when a friend feels the need to show off his homemade video collection do you find that crossing the line?
It depends on how close we are and if it's a funny video(joke) or something.
If you're 100% sure he showed it to you because of some fantasy with you, talk to him, that's why we have brains to communicate and solve problems.
Of course you don't need to be agressive, when talking about chicks just tell him hey dude I didn't like watching you naked so please next time only chicks(use a friendly and joking accent).
Then you'll see his reaction.
Still in any case this is not the end of the world, just relax and learn with that experience instead of keeping imagining things.
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post #10 of 27 (permalink) Old 06-29-2011, 12:23 PM
 
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I would have dealt with it in exactly the same way, I think.
I have good friends, but I don't want to know and see every detail of their lives. If you feel uncomfortable with his actions and told him so and he can't deal then tell him to take a hike.
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I guess I could always take a trip to NY with him.....hehehe
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I can understand if it is the "appropriate' setting, i.e, a locker room, the Navy (lol), etc...But when a friend feels the need to show off his homemade video collection do you find that crossing the line?
"Appropriate" is the LAST word I would use to describe the sheer amount of dongs I've had to see...

Go watch" waiting" and pay attention to the penis showing game lol. We had our own, much more creative version of it....
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I think if you stopped talking to this guy, it wouldn't be a loss.

This has nothing to do with him showing you his penis. This has to do with why the hell is the guy showing you homemade sex tapes in the first place? That's pretty disturbing. There is just no good reason to share that kind of stuff.

I find it funny that people think this would be appropriate in the Navy. You can't get much more homoerotic than the Navy!

http://youtu.be/ekXxi9IKZSA

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I This has to do with why the hell is the guy showing you homemade sex tapes in the first place? That's pretty disturbing. There is just no good reason to share that kind of stuff.
Maybe .........................laughing

Disturbing to me is killing animals, like that movie showing dolphins massacre.
Because of our(not mine) tongues animals are tortured and killed.
Hitler IS disturbing.
The way people can't respect what they don't agreed or understand is disturbing.
Racism is disturbing cause there's only one race........human race.
Killing or treating people different(g.a.y.s) because of what they do with their bodies is disturbing.
Those things are disturbing and not a dude doing his chick and sharing it.
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I think if you stopped talking to this guy, it wouldn't be a loss.

This has nothing to do with him showing you his penis. This has to do with why the hell is the guy showing you homemade sex tapes in the first place? That's pretty disturbing. There is just no good reason to share that kind of stuff.

I find it funny that people think this would be appropriate in the Navy. You can't get much more homoerotic than the Navy!

http://youtu.be/ekXxi9IKZSA

I agree totally...I think you hit it on the nail. Good answer!!
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