Re: Beginner wiring help.... SOS
One thing that could really help you is to download a schematic of the wiring you want. Several sites have their wiring schematics, like seymourduncan.com, etc.
Once you get the schematic, use a graphics program, and make a few copies of the schematic.
Then, using your graphics program, remove all wiring, other than one color, for example red. The only wires that show are the red wires. Take everything else out.
Do it for each wire color. It simplifies things a lot, and will help you, especially at the beginning.